Finding love shouldn't be about trying to remedy your loneliness or find happiness in another person. I've met several guys and read numerous stories of women who met guys who just wanted to grab someone's hand and run for an alter. I'm sure there are female equivalents. Today I want to talk about my own… Continue reading Focus On Yourself
Category: Dating
Signs Of Emotional Unavailability And How To Get Out Before You Get Hurt
This is going to be a long one folks...hang tight... There's probably a variety of ways one could describe how emotional unavailability occurs, but I am a psychology girl so I will discuss the one that makes the most sense to me. Emotional unavailability is a coping strategy resulting from some stressor a person has… Continue reading Signs Of Emotional Unavailability And How To Get Out Before You Get Hurt
Emotionally Unavailable People Are Emotionally Abusive: Breaking The Trauma Bond
Today we are going to talk about why an emotionally unavailable person who choses to date is really emotionally abusive. That may be a hard pill to swallow for both sides of the issue, but before you shrug it off, hear me out. When I had my break up with the person I was seeing… Continue reading Emotionally Unavailable People Are Emotionally Abusive: Breaking The Trauma Bond
Mismatched Brain Chemistry
One thing a lot of us don't consider is the chemistry of our brain when we fall in love. This is true of any person falling love, not just those with emotionally unavailable partners. The chemistry changes in your brain leave you feeling closer to the person you are falling for, but they can also… Continue reading Mismatched Brain Chemistry
Bonus Video To Make You Laugh
I wish I could write a great blog to accompany this video, but I can't. To be honest, Dads Against Daughters Dating doesn't seem like a topic I set out to include on this particular blog, but this video is too much and I can't stop watching it. This is a spoof our church did… Continue reading Bonus Video To Make You Laugh
Tricky Triangulation Trails
Today's topic of Triangulation became a little more bogged down the more I researched it, but hang tight because there's a lot of great stuff in this blog that will move you toward healing from emotionally unavailable relationships. The first thing that you need to understand is what triangulation is. It is a concept from… Continue reading Tricky Triangulation Trails
The Smoke and Mirror Games of Emotionally Unavailable People
So let's get right into it... how the heck do we even give these emotionally unavailable people the chance to get us addicted to them in the first place? The answer is fairly simple even though we miss it in real life; it's a game of smoke and mirrors that get us geared up to… Continue reading The Smoke and Mirror Games of Emotionally Unavailable People
Sorry I Didn’t Ghost You
My goal is to have blogs up on Tuesdays and Thursdays but I haven't managed that this week. I have to apologize. I am preparing for a pretty big surgery in about a month and unfortunately I have been spending a lot of time in doctor offices getting all the necessary tests and so forth… Continue reading Sorry I Didn’t Ghost You
The Psychology Of Learning To Love Emotionally Unavailable People
Today we are using the science of psychology to explain breaking up with emotionally unavailable people. Emotionally unavailable people can be both male or female, although it seems this is something plaguing our men these days. My own personal opinion on why that is is because we have told men to stuff their emotions for… Continue reading The Psychology Of Learning To Love Emotionally Unavailable People
How To Be A Creep
Today I am going to share one of the most insane experiences I've had since going back into dating. I was decorating for Christmas shortly after Thanksgiving when a guy walked right up while I was hanging lights in the window and knocked on the door. I mistook him for one of the handymen at… Continue reading How To Be A Creep
