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Emotionally Unavailable People Are Emotionally Abusive: Breaking The Trauma Bond

Today we are going to talk about why an emotionally unavailable person who choses to date is really emotionally abusive.  That may be a hard pill to swallow for both sides of the issue, but before you shrug it off, hear me out. When I had my break up with the person I was seeing… Continue reading Emotionally Unavailable People Are Emotionally Abusive: Breaking The Trauma Bond

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The Smoke and Mirror Games of Emotionally Unavailable People

So let's get right into it... how the heck do we even give these emotionally unavailable people the chance to get us addicted to them in the first place?  The answer is fairly simple even though we miss it in real life; it's a game of smoke and mirrors that get us geared up to… Continue reading The Smoke and Mirror Games of Emotionally Unavailable People

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Jonah Could Talk To God Inside A Whale So you CAN Return a Text

Originally Posted March 28, 2018 So, let's pick up on my latest dating venture through heartbreak city again. The next thing that happened was this guy told me his life was difficult and he was taking a break from dating, but he "thought I was fantastic" and we should still talk. The begining of the… Continue reading Jonah Could Talk To God Inside A Whale So you CAN Return a Text

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What You Get When You Don’t Remember Your Worth

  Originally posted on March 22, 2018 I decided to start dating again after about nine years being out of the scene.  Man, things have changed!  I can honestly say I have now been in a "relationship" for two months without ever having gone on a date.  I hear there's a term for this called… Continue reading What You Get When You Don’t Remember Your Worth