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Signs Of Emotional Unavailability And How To Get Out Before You Get Hurt

This is going to be a long one folks...hang tight... There's probably a variety of ways one could describe how emotional unavailability occurs, but I am a psychology girl so I will discuss the one that makes the most sense to me.  Emotional unavailability is a coping strategy resulting from some stressor a person has… Continue reading Signs Of Emotional Unavailability And How To Get Out Before You Get Hurt

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Emotionally Unavailable People Are Emotionally Abusive: Breaking The Trauma Bond

Today we are going to talk about why an emotionally unavailable person who choses to date is really emotionally abusive.  That may be a hard pill to swallow for both sides of the issue, but before you shrug it off, hear me out. When I had my break up with the person I was seeing… Continue reading Emotionally Unavailable People Are Emotionally Abusive: Breaking The Trauma Bond

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The Psychology Of Learning To Love Emotionally Unavailable People

Today we are using the science of psychology to explain breaking up with emotionally unavailable people. Emotionally unavailable people can be both male or female, although it seems this is something plaguing our men these days.  My own personal opinion on why that is is because we have told men to stuff their emotions for… Continue reading The Psychology Of Learning To Love Emotionally Unavailable People

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What You Get When You Don’t Remember Your Worth

  Originally posted on March 22, 2018 I decided to start dating again after about nine years being out of the scene.  Man, things have changed!  I can honestly say I have now been in a "relationship" for two months without ever having gone on a date.  I hear there's a term for this called… Continue reading What You Get When You Don’t Remember Your Worth